I don't know what the deal is....
Tess refuses, will not, and can not be made to take a nap.
What happened to our good lil' sleeper??? We've worked so hard to be "Baby Wise" and our Tess has always been a good sleeper. I mean, she would go through stages- but overall.. a good sleeper. Lately (the past couple of months or so) she has been crying out in the middle of the night...."daddy", "DADDY!!" followed by a trip to our bed and then restful sleep the rest of the night. I however, can not sleep in a queen bed with 3 people (plus Tessie snores like a champ). We are trying to get the situation under control so she will return to our good sleeper. After talking to many "super moms" -here are some suggestions I have been given: Make her lay back down, spank her, rub her back, lay down with her, hold her down till she goes to sleep, let her cry it out, pray for her....
I would love to hear any other suggestions from any of my blogging friends!!! Anyway, nap time is a disaster it is almost not worth it to me. I let her cry for 1 hour yesterday...i felt so bad. :-( plus she never went to sleep. Here is what she had to say "i ouwanna nap"...over and over!) I wold LOVE for her to take a nap, mainly for selfish reasons like I AM EXHAUSTED!!! Anywho, last night I laid her down (she always goes to bed easily at night) at 8pm and at 10pm she started crying out, etc. I went in there, hugged her and prayed aloud for her, made her lay back down (usually I have been rocking her-which is followed by her falling back asleep, me laying her down, her waking back up, her crying....repeat steps over again until I break and take her to our room....she wins..i lose) and rubbed her back till she fell back asleep...
and guess what?
SHE SLEPT THE REST OF THE NIGHT!!! Woo Hoo! WOo HoO!
Well, this morning she woke up at 7am and I went to get her. I praised her for sleeping in her bed all night and she said "I didn't get scared" :-( I felt sooooo bad. I have never heard her say she was scared at night. Poor thang. Maybe she had been having those night terrors?? Anyway, I would love to hear any advise from anyone that may read this...strangers or friends. I need some help.
Pray for good sleep for Tess.
I might give up on the naps.........will see. night all.